Help for another

You don't have to solve it alone.

For partners, parents, friends, and colleagues. Even if your loved one doesn't want help yet, you can set something in motion.

Do you recognise this?

The quiet suffering of loved ones

You are treading on eggshells

You choose your words carefully, yet the conversation grinds to a halt. Everything you say seems to be counterproductive.

Agreements, secrets and excuses

Appointments are forgotten, moods change suddenly, there are conflicting stories. And your surroundings think it's not that bad.

You'll wear yourself out.

You're sleeping badly, are permanently switched on, and are losing sight of your own boundaries.

When you should not wait

Waiting usually makes it worse

These signs are a reason to call today, not next month.

  • Clear deteriorationComplaints that last for weeks, loss of sleep, energy or daily routine, absence from work or study.
  • Loss of gripPromises that fall through time and again, behaviour that continues despite the consequences.
  • The environment is running out.Quarrels, isolation, or the feeling that the family has started to revolve around one person.
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How we can help

You can do something, even without your neighbour's permission.

  • Support for youSetting boundaries without losing the relationship, and remaining true to yourself.
  • An interventionCarefully prepared and respectful. No confrontation, but an opening towards change.
  • Practical supportUnderstanding the healthcare landscape, so you don't get lost in rules and waiting lists.
How do we proceed

From powerlessness to direction

No waiting list, no detours.

1

You call or message, even anonymously

We listen and immediately start thinking with you, even if you don't know where to begin.

Outside of office hours too
2

We are looking at the situation together.

What's going on, and what's sensible? Sometimes it's in how you conduct the conversation.

Tailor-made
3

We determine what does help

From a well-prepared intervention to guidance for you. We'll continue to stand by you.

Aftercare is part of it
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Honest answers

Is there any point in calling if my relative doesn't want help themselves?

Yes. We’ll look with you at what *is* possible: how to approach the conversation differently, or a carefully prepared intervention. And you can receive guidance for yourself, separately from that.

Does my next of kin need to know I'm making contact?

No. You can also call anonymously. We will not contact anyone else without your permission.

I'm actually looking for help for myself. Is that possible too?

Yes. Empathising with someone who is stuck takes a lot. You can come to us for your own peace and stability, even if the person you are worried about never appears.

Take the step

You don't have to carry it alone.

+31 85 082 57 10

Confidential, 7 days a week. You will hear from us within 24 hours.

Is there immediate danger or are you thinking of suicide? Call 112, of 113 Suicide Prevention via 0800-0113 (free, available day and night).

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